I just need a safe space to _______________. I hear this phrase on a weekly – if not daily- basis. I just need a safe space to talk. Listen. Cry. Find compassion. Be welcome Be unconditionally loved. Three days before my birthday my sweet hubby was laid off. Organizational restructuring. You’ve got two weeks. As it is, we are in …
When Your Spirit is Well but Your Soul is Not
The urologist moved the camera along my insides, while multiple doctors and nurses ducked in, and I believe at one point the Fed Ex guy even popped by for a sneak peek, their collective confusion evident. In my 30 years of being a urologist and doing thousands of these, I’ve never seen anything like this. It’s always fun to hear a specialist …
How to Quiet the Comparison Voice
It’s been a stressful season. Bry and I are working our booties off in our marriage, not because things are bad, but because we want them to be great. Deep. On the same page. Confident. And that takes work. Not sure if it’s their ages, or school, or where they are developmentally, but our boys are requesting and requiring much …