New Year’s Giveaway; The Year of Choosing REAL

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5 signed copies of Choosing REAL are going to:

Alexa Cook
Bethany Massey
Lauren Washer
Tonya McElveen
Brianna Brown

I hope you feel loved, known and pursued on every page. But mostly, that you’ll be encouraged to release your control of needing to be all things to all people, and simply enjoy being invited by a real God through everyday circumstances. Winners, please email me your address and love mail is on its way.

An overwhelming THANK YOU for ALL your entries and excitement. This won’t be the last giveaway, but if you can’t wait to read it, buy a copy of Choosing REAL on Amazon, B&N or

For those of you who are new here, welcome. So glad you’re here. To my tried and true, warm hugs. How I wish I could gather all of you in our small cottage living room for New Year’s and find your eyes and encourage you with a specific word, a prayer for 2017. Perhaps one day. As for now, I’m just gonna throw a Choosing REAL Book Giveaway like confetti: 5 COPIES OF CHOOSING REAL GIVEN TO 5 OF YOU! I’m so passionate about this message, about sharing my journey of releasing control and choosing to respond and celebrate to how God invites us through real life circumstances like busy schedules, loss, transition, loneliness, gratitude, social media, relationships, and the unplanned to experience a near and intimate relationship with a genuine God. It’s my heartbeat to you, my in-the-middle stories and lessons and awareness of how everyday life and faith connect.

If you want a sneak peak, my publisher created a mini e-book of Choosing REAL, including the introduction and first chapter. Enjoy the freemium here:


I had the crazy honor to write a devotional for Proverbs 31 Ministries, and about fell over with gratitude and a heightened passion for this message when I saw how deeply it’s connecting with everyday souls like us. So.dang.grateful. Enjoy the P31 Devotional HERE:

As an additional New Year’s gift to you, enjoy this Choosing REAL excerpt from Ch. 13, YOU Matter, pg. 211-213

Dear Friend,

I wish for this to be the year you more fully understand how wide and long and high and deep is Jesus’ love for you. And may you believe it deep down in your gut and live from this space. Ill let you sit in that truth for like, twenty minutes. While eating a mimosa cupcake of course!
     I wish for you to know that whether people surround you or you stand alone, you are of great worth.
     I pray you will ask people their stories wherever you go and remember that you have a story to tell. May your main characters always be truth and love.
     I pray that in the moments you experience the most joy, you will add them to your memory bank and pull them out on hard days.
     I wish for you to continue being vulnerable, and when you find yourself getting “in your head,” that you will seek truth, text a friend, or start baking, because those things are life giving for you.
     I wish for you to laugh at yourself more. Because that means you are risking and possibly failing in the process. But risking nonetheless.
     I pray for ridiculously amazing hair days when you’re PMS-ing.
     I hope when you are tempted to beat yourself up, instead you’ll grab a piece of chocolate and say out loud, “I am fearfully and fabulously made.”
     I wish for you to experience a life worth looking back on.
     I wish for you to hear God through a megaphone, notice artistry in hopeless places, and taste life in grateful gulps. I wish for you to seek out people who feel unseen and remind them that they’re not.
     I wish for you to rest and nap and go lip gloss and shoe shopping for no reason at all. I wish for you to book binge whenever you please.
     I wish for you to dance- not crawl- forward. And on the days you crawl, I hope you pour buckets of grace on yourself. Because you are human.
     I wish for you to emotionally spoil those kids of yours. And receive their spoiling when they do the same for you.
     I wish for you to continue discovering who “your” people are to lean on, ask prayer, help, wisdom, and dessert recipes. Because you do need them. And they need you.
     I wish you champagne cheers and picnic dinners and midweek movies and laughing till you snort.
     I wish for you to know when to turn off your brain, throw the fam in the car, head to the beach, and chase the sun.
     I wish you crazy dancing with your hubby and relentless flirting and making out in the kitchen. Dirty dishes can wait.
     I wish when self-critical thoughts peck, you will turn outward. Grab a friend her favorite latte and pay her a visit.
     I wish for you to pray when you want to complain and give when you want to wallow. And please, be gentle with yourself.
     I wish for you to hold nothing back. Gate any doubts and soar.
     I wish you bubble baths and belonging and honest conversations.
     I pray every “I wish” will become “I’m thankful.”
     I pray for you to love yourself as much as you love others.
     I wish for you to know you are leaving your little mark on this huge world just by being you. And I wish for you to celebrate that today.

Bekah Jane

Choosing REAL Book Giveaway begins December 31, 12am (PT) and ends Monday, January, 2 at midnight (PT). To enter, write your name in the comments below and include your Instagram name. Winners will be chosen at random and announced on my Instagram account: BekahJanePogue on Tuesday, January 3 at 9am (PT). Oh.the.FUN!!

Comments 63

  1. Amy Grove☺️
    And my IG name is Amy Grove. First time coming across your blog, and I’m so excited to learn how to find and feel peace over my soul…so grateful I was lead here! Thank you and happy, happy new year!

  2. I loved that prayer!

    My name is Jessika Hoover, my Insta name is jessilouwho22, and I would love to win a copy of your book! 🙂

  3. Hi, My name is Kelly and my Instagram is schottkelly. I had never heard of you before until I read your devotional on Proverbs 31. I really connected to that and went right to your page and I have already ordered your book!! However, if I win I definitely know I could share it with my sister so enter me in. I appreciate your message.

  4. My name is Susan Ruffalo.

    IG is susansusan33

    I just found you via the p31 devotion u shared. Thank you so much for your ministry! ❤️❤️

  5. Saw your blog on Proverbs 31 and God really used you to speak to me!! I also love the prayer above!! Thanks for allowing God to work through you!!! Smumma16

  6. I have to have major surgery on 9th January for cancer,it has turned my “orderly world upside down!Clingling on to God!very scary!would love the book!
    God bless you.

  7. Happy New Year Bekah! My name is Cinnamon. I read your awesome devotional on P31 and loved it! ❤ I have shared it with all my girlfriends because we can all relate to the “Go. Encourage. Perform.” aspect of being a woman and wanting to be all things, to all people, all the time. It’s definitely one of the traps of the enemy. I would love to win a copy of your book! Thank you for praying for us. ????????

    IG: whatamama

  8. I’ve been wanting to read your book ever since you announced it! I loved hearing your message when you came and spoke at our church last year. I have two Instagrams: bkshives and evereverafterjbs

  9. Hi my name is Holly and I just found your blog from the God daily emails that I receive……My instagram is holly.moris

  10. I have so many dear friends who will LOVE this book! I’m almost done with it and have been blessed with every chapter! Hooray to whoever gets the giveaway!!! @rebekahpogue
    Rebekah Pogue (Becky)

  11. As a friend of both your father and mother for many years, I am thoroughly enjoying your blog and the thoughts you share are truly inspiring! I would love to win a copy of your book to enjoy myself and then share with others.

  12. Would love to win a copy! This book is just what I need to kick off a new year with a baby due in less than 5 weeks ???? Thanks for hosting!! ????

  13. Veronica Darling and my iG handle is chadsveronica! So proud of you friend! Would love to have more copies to sprinkle around!

  14. Bekah! I’m so excited and proud of you! Can’t wait to read your book! I mean, even your prayer above was inspirational!!! Looking forward to Choosing Real this year! @haylatehyamommy

  15. My name is Brooke and I would LOVE to win a copy! We were at ABC when you and your husband spoke for family night, and we were so inspired! My Instagram is @brookekru

  16. Ana Menjivar

    Read your devotional on Proverbs31 and your message spoke to me on so many levels. Would love to read your book! Thank you for sharing your story. Blessings to you and your sweet family.

    My IG is ana.menjivar

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